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5 Personalized Groomsmen Gifts

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When you choose your groomsmen, you’re picking the guys who have been with you through thick and thin. They’re your bros, your best buds, your friends and family. When you ask them to stand up there with you on the day, you’re bestowing on them both an honor and a responsibility. Show them how much you appreciate their support with a thoughtful groomsmen gift. Here are a few cool gifts you can personalize to make them extra-special.

Engraved Craft Beer Growler

The great part of the craft beer boom is that there are tons of great microbreweries in any major metropolitan area. And plenty of them sell beer in not just cans and bottles, but 64-oz growlers as well. You can buy each of your groomsmen a growler at your local microbrewery, and then customize the bottle with a home etching kit. Add a monogram, your wedding dates, whatever you’d like. Most microbreweries will give discounts for bringing back a growler to be refilled, so it’s the gift that keeps on giving.

Cooler Backpack Chair

A customized portable camp chair makes a cool groomsmen gift. A backpack would make a great gift as well, and so would a beer cooler. So triple your coolness with this combo–it’s a backpack that includes a cooler that holds a case of beer, and unfolds into a camp chair. It’s perfect for tailgating and/or camping, and is guaranteed to be a gift that gets used.

Engraved Copper Mug

The Moscow Mule is the trendy drink of the moment, and it’s not hard to see why; it’s got the mint twist of a mojito with a bite of ginger and the refreshing coolness of crushed ice. When it’s served in a copper mug, it’s pure summer magic. If you’re planning on making the Moscow Mule your wedding cocktail, let your groomsmen drink them in style from monogrammed copper mugs.

Personalized Barbeque Tools

Sure, your groomsmen probably already have a set of barbeque tools; but a really nice monogrammed kit like will beat whatever they picked up at Home Depot or Wal-Mart. It’s the kind of thoughtful gift that gets used–even the groomsmen who don’t drink or don’t smoke cigars can enjoy an afternoon spent grilling up a feast. They’ll think of you every lazy summer day they use your gift.

Personalized Duffel Bag

If your groomsmen regularly hit the gym, they probably have the same smelly nylon bag they’ve been using for years. Help them upgrade with a personalized duffel that will stand up to a lifetime of trips to the gym and weekend vacation getaways. It’s practical and stylish, guaranteed to get a thumbs-up from your wedding party.

Your groomsmen are putting in the time and effort to make your wedding day the best it can be. Show them how much you appreciate them with a thoughtful groomsmen gift that will serve them for years to come. So think beyond the basic flasks and cigars and hit them with one of the above suggestions. They’ll thank you for it.

Being a Great Groomsman

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Great GroomsmanThough knowing the duties of a groomsman are a rite of passage in many circles, there are those out there that have no idea what it truly entails. Believe it or not, there are men who have never even attended a wedding, let alone suited up to be a part of one. While it may seem obvious to many of us what a groomsman’s duties are, there may be more to the job than you expect. Here is a brief overview of what it takes to be a great groomsman and what to expect if you accept the job as part of a friend or family member’s wedding.

First off, the good news, guys, is that you won’t have nearly the amount of responsibilities as bridesmaids have for the wedding. Depending on how the wedding is setup, some groomsman simply need put on your tuxedo, wear it proudly, and show up on time for the wedding. If that is what is expected of you at the wedding, that’s great; but traditionally there is a little more to the job of being a groomsman than that.

Your Tuxedo

The first thing that you’ll need to do to be a groomsman is to either purchase or rent a tuxedo. This can’t just be any tuxedo, it must match the style and color scheme that was picked out in advance by the couple. Some couples allow their groomsmen and bridesmaids a little flexibility in their choices, others do not; it’s really up to them. However, it is your duty to choose your tuxedo, pay for the purchase or rental, and pick it up in time to be ready for the wedding.

Bachelor Party

Traditionally, the last party night that a man about to be married has is called their bachelor party. I think we’re all familiar with the term, and I’ll leave it up to your discretion of what you want to do on your bachelor party night, but the bottom line is that it is the responsibility of the groomsmen to plan and execute it in its entirety. Usually, the best man will take the lead role and the other groomsmen will add valuable ideas and funding, but every situation is different.

The Best Man

Being the best men brings along a whole slew of other responsibilities. Most importantly, you’ll be expected to give a speech at the reception dinner to toast the new couple. On top of that honor and duty, you’ll be expected to coordinate the other groomsmen, plan the majority of the bachelor party, and stand up next to the groom during the ceremony. Ultimately, being best man means that you are in charge of all the men on the groom’s side and being the groom’s “right hand man”.

Wedding Gift

Though you’re already spending a lot of money to participate in the wedding, you are still supposed to give the couple a wedding gift. It doesn’t need to be extravagant, but you should give them something nice since they obviously think highly enough of you to invite you to be in the wedding.

Pre-Wedding Functions

As a groomsman, you’ll need to make room in your schedule for all sorts of functions leading up to the wedding. These functions include the rehearsal dinner, bachelor party, and anything else you are asked to do by the couple. Being a great groomsman isn’t a free ride, there are many responsibilities and obligations that come along with the territory.

Usher or Escort

As part of your duties during the ceremony, you are often asked to help usher or escort people to their seats. This is particularly true for elderly guests or close family members because it makes them feel more appreciated and connected to the wedding when they are sat by someone who will be in the ceremony.

Wedding Photos

Lastly, you’ll need to get in the mindset that you will be photographed repeatedly and often. Before the ceremony, you’ll probably need to take photos with the groom and other groomsmen. During the ceremony, you’ll be in most of the shots of that, too. After the ceremony, you’ll need to take photos with the bride and her bridesmaids, and the list goes on and on. If you’re not comfortable having your picture taken, you’ll need to suck it up because being a great groomsman entails lots of pictures of you for the entire day and evening.